Aaron posted a condolence
Sunday, September 16, 2012
I wanted to write a short note about what your Dad meant to me. I don’t know if you’re doing a tribute document or what you have planned but I had to get it out, hope its OK.
When I was a young university student, I met Dan & Mark Dubois who became among my best friends in life. The Dubois family spends allot of time together so I got to meet John, Iris and Bonnie, too. I even lived with the family for about a year while attending BCIT with Mark.
After 5 minutes with John, you knew that he loved his wife Iris with open affection and that he loved his family and that he was there to do what was needed for them, whatever that was. I loved his vibrant energy and positive outlook.
At the time, I thought of John as my ‘away from home’ Dad. After the years have passed I’ve come to think of him more as my first mentor other than my own Dad. When you’re a young lad, you’re a little shaky as you try to find your way. In my first year away from home, his gentle influence just helped me find each small step of confidence. I would not be who I am without those years living close by the Dubois family.
Along with the boys, we had a ton of fun enjoying snowmobiling, watercraft, motorcycling, camping, archery, target practice, mechanics, bodywork and all sorts of other things. We were boys and we had fun. I think its fair to say that John was one of the biggest kids on the planet. Although its been years that I’ve seen him, I bet he had a ton of fun with his grandkids! I honestly picture mothers, aunts and grand mothers shaking their heads in awe!
I heard an expression or a quote a long time ago that has always made me think of John. I may not have it right but it was something like this. Only a few people are truly awake and those that are live in constant amazement. I pictured John when I heard it and I think its true.
All the best, my thoughts are with you and the family,
Aaron
